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How to choose the right singles event

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Long Island Speed Dating; Long Island Dating; Long Island Single; Long Island Singles; Long Island Singles events If you visit the LongIsland.com Singles Events listings or look in Tuesdays Newsday, you will see that you ...

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Long Island Speed Dating; Long Island Dating; Long Island Single; Long Island Singles; Long Island Singles events

If you visit the LongIsland.com Singles Events listings or look in Tuesdays Newsday, you will see that you have quite a few choices with respect to choosing a singles event. Unfortunately all singles events are not the same and it really comes down to the organizer of the event. Some have your best interest at heart, and others are just looking to make a quick dollar and do not put any time or effort into putting on a quality event. Here are some guidelines to selecting a speed dating company, but many of the criteria can be applied to general singles events as well.

*Does the company have an updated website with a phone number to call should you have any questions?

If there is not an easy way to get a live person on the phone should you have a question or problem, you may want to stay away. When you visit the website (if their is one), the events should be relatively current and not list parties from months ago.

Does the company require pre-payment for the events?

This is KEY. Ensuring an equal gender balance is no easy task. Although it is nice to just be able to show up and pay at the door, this system just does not work and consistently leads to a gender imbalance.

*Does the organizer adhere to the age groups posted or do they have a policy of "If you don't tell, we wont tell."

Their is nothing worse than signing up for an event only to find that the people attending are way over or under the age groups posted. That is false advertising. On the other hand, if you are looking to date outside your age group, a company that is not a stickler on the age groups may be an enticing option for you.

When are the events held?

Some companies host events only on the weekends. Other groups have events mid-week. Choose a company that has events during times that fit your schedule.

Do you have to enter in your own selections after the speed dating event?

A night of speed dating can be very enjoyable, but also a little bit exhausting. Some companies require you to go home and enter in your own selections after the event. Other companies send the matches to you and do all the work. You may be saying Big Deal? Well it is a big deal since if you have to enter in your own selections, you may have to wait days to get your results or may not get accurate results at all. Why? What happens if you go home after the event and do your homework by entering your selections, but Jennifer waits a few days before doing hers? During those few days, you may be left waiting for the results to come in. What if Jennifer does not enter in the matches at all. Maybe she lost the paper, dog ate it, etc. You are left thinking that you really did not match, when in fact that may not be the case.

When do you receive your matches?

At our events, you receive your matches the next morning, many times within hours after the event. Some other companies also do a good job and send you the matches the next day. Others require you to wait 48 hours or more because they force you to enter in your own matches and can not start sending results until giving people a chance to input selections. Before making a reservation, find out how long you have to wait before getting your matches.

Do you receive one way matches, meaning if someone picked you, but you didn't pick them, do you still find out?

It can sometimes be overwhelming meeting a lot of people very fast, and you may change your mind. Some companies give one way matches. Other groups do not. If this is an important feature, find out if the singles group provides you with one way matches.

Do you get to meet EVERYONE at the event?

Some companies structure the event so that you meet everyone who attends. However at other events, you only get to meet some of the attendees, but are encouraged to meet the others during a break period or afterwards. That can still be a little awkward.

How long is each date?

I have seen everywhere from 3 minutes to 10 minutes, all depending on the philosophy of the company running the event. Our philosophy is to have you meet more people (no more than 20) for less time (usually 4 or 5 minutes). If you have an initial connection with someone, or are not sure after the 4 or 5 minutes, you can get to know the person afterwards or through email, but that important ice breaker has already taken place. Dating is a numbers game.

Other groups have you meet 7 or 8 people for 7 or 8 minutes each, so you get a little more time with each person, but do not get to meet everyone. For some people, that works just fine and you should go with a group that uses that system.

How long has the company been in business?

I am not saying that you should not give the new kid on a block a chance, but just be careful. The average company that hosts speed dating events is around for about 3 months. Try to find out if the hosting company is brand new, or has a history of canceling events because of a poor turnout.

Food or any extras included?

Some event organizers do include food at the events and others do not.