It’s Cancer, Where Do I Begin

It's Cancer; Where Do I Begin - You are dealing with one of the most terrifying challenges you may ever face in your life. Decisions you make today will impact your quality of life for ...

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It's Cancer; Where Do I Begin - You are dealing with one of the most terrifying challenges you may ever face in your life. Decisions you make today will impact your quality of life for years to come. Take back control by establishing the ground rules for your cancer.


Don't Give Up Your Power!

Create a Notebook - Purchase a notebook, this will become your bible, bring it with you to all your appointments. Note names, dates, addresses, contact people, referrals, diagnoses and drugs. You might also note how you felt when speaking with your doctors. Were you comfortable with the doctor and his staff? Did the doctor answer all your questions? Was the staff friendly, helpful and supportive?

Ask questions - Ask more questions. Keep your notebook handy, so that you can jot down questions to ask your medical team.

Get a Second Opinion - Doctor's opinions vary about possible treatments.

Know - That you are not only a patient you are a consumer entitled to the best possible services, insist on them.

Research - Do your homework. Gather information from the internet, libraries and national organizations. Information is power, especially now! Be your own advocate.

Create Your Personal Support Network - Designate a family member or trusted friend as coordinator of your team. Arrange for a team member to accompany you on doctor visits, chemotherapy treatments or just to be there to listen. If you prefer to visit your doctor alone, bring a tape recorder so that you can review your conversation.

Join a Support Group - Cancer increases stress; support groups help relieve it.

Know Your Insurance - Check with your carrier for in-network and out-of-network procedures. If referrals are needed, make sure you arrange for them. Check your deductibles. Speak with a representative to get an overview of your benefits. Designate the follow-up to a member of your support team.

Practice Extreme Self-Care - Take time to pamper yourself, meditate, learn to ask for help and receive it.


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Are you currently going through chemotherapy? Have some personal tips to share that would help others facing this challenge. What little things do you do for yourself to promote extreme self care?
E-mail and we will post your thoughts, suggestions and successes.


Susan M. Love, M.D.

Joan Swirsky & Barbara Balaban

Gerald P. Murphy, M.D., Lois B. Morris and Dianne Lange

Believe In Yourself

"Whatever course you decide upon, there is always someone to tell you that you are wrong. There are always difficulties arising which tempt you to believe that your critics are right. To map out a course of action and follow it to an end requires...courage."
-Ralph Waldo Emerson