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Thoughts For the Graduates of 2005

Written by fatherfrank  |  17. June 2005

It is hard to believe that another school year has ended and the high school class of 2005 is in the midst of moving on. This class, like all classes before them, has made a powerful impact upon all of our communities. There are a record number of seniors going off to Ivy League colleges on scholarships. There are an exceptional number of young people going off to the Service Academies.
This year's high school seniors have made their mark scholastically as well as athletically. An impressive number of sports teams have made it to the states with significant numbers bringing state titles home to their high schools and to our local communities.
However, what is most impressive about the class of 2005 is how many seniors, in addition to all of their school activities, are very involved in community service. Yes, many school districts have a mandatory requirement, but many don't. More significant are the number of students who complete their obligatory number of hours and continue to give of themselves. Not to mention the countless number of seniors who give of themselves with no compelling obligation.
This past year there were so many different campaigns to help the sick, the poor and the needy, not to mention the very specialized needs of people who suffered terrible tragedies. So many of those efforts were successful because of the class of 2005 and their generous spirit.
Their commitment to community service and their spirit of inclusiveness is refreshing, especially since we live in a world that seems more grounded in narcissism and self-centeredness rather than thinking of others first, especially those in need.
Seniors, as you continue your journey realize that being human is more important than a successful academic record. Showing compassion and understanding rooted in justice is more significant than any science formula. These are difficult lessons to learn because they demand that you risk all that you are now for what you could become tomorrow.
Look around you. We are living in very challenging times. A new revolution is afoot. Your generation is moving away from the indifference and complacency of yesterday and moving toward a new idealism of freedom and responsibility. Its happened in the Soviet Union and throughout Eastern Europe. Who would have ever thought that your generation would see the removal of the Berlin Wall? It is not happening among the political elite, but among our young, our students, and your peers. It gives me hope that tomorrow will be better.
As you graduate from high school, keep these simple thoughts in mind: May you discover enough goodness in others to believe in a world of peace and to work for a peace grounded in justice.
May a kind word, a reassuring touch and a warm smile be yours every day of your life. Remember the sunshine when the storm seems unending. Teach love to those who know hate, and let that love embrace you as you continue in the world.
May the teachings of those you admire become a part of you so that you may call upon them. It is the content and quality of who you are that is important, not merely the actions you take.
Don't judge a book by its' cover or stop at the introduction. Read it through, seek the meaning and message of every life, for everyone's life is sacred, even those who are different from you or whom you don't like.
Be more inclusive than exclusive. Don't be blinded by the world's filters that tend to use shame, blame and guilt to shackle people down and divide them. Set people free with your respect and non-judgmental way.
May you not become too concerned with material matters, but instead place immeasurable value on the goodness in your heart. Find time each day to see beauty and love in the world around you. Realize that you have limitless opportunities and possibilities. What you may feel you lack in one regard may be more than compensated for in another.
May you see your future as one filled with promise and possibility. Learn to view everything as a worthwhile experience. May you seek enough inner strength to determine your own worth and not be dependent on another's judgment of your accomplishments.
Get up every day and be grateful for what you have. Suck the marrow out of life as you face life's challenges. Don't see the glass as half empty, always see it as half full. See every life experience and human encounter as a learning experience, as an opportunity to grow and become more than you are.
Think positive, make positive choices. Choice, not chance determines one's destiny. You may make a living by what you get, but you will make a life by what you give.
Give generously of your heart, your time, your talent and your treasure. The autograph you leave will make a tremendous difference.
May you always seek peace and justice. May you build bridges not walls. Live a balanced life. Learn a little, think a little, dance, play and have a great sense of humor. But most of all, be aware of wonder. And when you go out into the world, hold hands and stick together.
Empower, don't enable. Forgive, forget and don't judge. Have a compassionate heart and a generous spirit. Always take time to smell the flowers in your life.
As Dr. Seuss reminds us, "...remember that life's a great balancing act. Just never forget to be dexterous and deft. And never mix up your right foot with your left...So, you're off to Great Places" (Oh The Places You'll Go)
As you go, may you always feel loved.
Congratulations graduates of 2005. Thanks for making the world a little richer, a little brighter and a better place.

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